Dr. Leaf's Blog

Tips & Techniques for Highly Sensitive People and Parents + What NOT to Say to a Highly Sensitive Person, and the Benefits of Being Highly Sensitive (with Dr. Elaine Aron)

By Dr. Caroline Leaf on Jul 05, 2020

The word “sensitive” has both positive and negative connotations in our society, from statements like “he’s such a sensitive person” to phrases like “don’t be so sensitive!”. Yet the nature of human sensitiv...

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Healing Childhood Trauma & Signs of Secondary Trauma + How to Manage Compassion Fatigue with Dr. Nicole LePera

By Dr. Caroline Leaf on Jun 28, 2020

For many of us, trauma is something “big”: a car accident, the loss of a loved one, a disturbing event or tragic series of events. However, did you know that trauma can also be less obvious and more pervasiv...

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Overcoming Toxic Masculinity & The Stigma Around Men’s Mental Health + Advice on How to Raise Emotionally Resilient Sons & Vital Relationship Advice for Men with Therapist John Kim

By Dr. Caroline Leaf on Jun 21, 2020

There is a lot of talk these day about the expectations we place on all sexes, and how this can impact our mental and physical wellbeing. Thankfully, we can break free of these expectations and learn to find...

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High Functioning Anxiety: Signs, Symptoms, and Solutions + How to Silence Your Inner Critic, Overcome Perfectionism and People-pleasing, and Avoid Burnout with Therapist Nancy Jane Smith

By Dr. Caroline Leaf on Jun 17, 2020

We all know those people that are always on the go: they never seem to rest, they are always busy doing something and they seem to accomplish so much. Perhaps you are one of those people! But did you know th...

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How Challenging Conversations and an Open Mindset Boost Mental & Brain Health + Tips on How to Have Difficult Conversations Correctly and Effectively

By Dr. Caroline Leaf on Jun 13, 2020

I am currently reading an amazing book by Ijeoma Oluo, So You Want to Talk About Race, and read a passage that really struck me: “Take care in your conversations, remember that you are dealing with the real ...

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How to Deal with Loss & Grief, How Unresolved Grief Could be Causing Anxiety Problems + Tips on How to Help Your Children Deal with Loss & Grief with Grief Expert & Therapist Claire Bidwell Smith

By Dr. Caroline Leaf on Jun 10, 2020

The world is in mourning. We have lost friends, family, jobs, finances and our sense of normality to COVID-19. We are coming face to face with the pervasive effects of systematic racism in our society, and i...

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A Window into the Current Emotional & Mental Space of Black America: Through the Lens of a Black Therapist

By Guest Contributor on Jun 10, 2020

By Rukudzo Honour Sithole MA.LPC-S The week of June 1st 2020 was the first time I sat down in my Counseling office as a black man and not in the role of therapist. A rush of emotions was unfolding in m...

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I Didn’t Get It – I Do Now

By Guest Contributor on Jun 06, 2020

By Laurie Allen God showed me why I self-implode today.  He showed me why I slide down the mountain over and over again. And as God so cleverly orchestrates, he used this moment to help shine a light on curr...

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Understanding the African American Experience for Culturally Competent Counseling

By Guest Contributor on Jun 06, 2020

By Christine Norman Understanding the African American Experience for Culturally Competent Counseling One of the goals of the therapeutic experiences is to guide the client to healing or optimal living by he...

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Black Immigrants, This Is Your Battle Too

By Guest Contributor on Jun 04, 2020

By Fope Adesina As a Nigerian whose parents migrated to Australia, my experience as a black child, then woman, meant that my family and I had to create spaces for our voices to be heard. This was despite the...

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A personal letter from me.

By Dr. Caroline Leaf on Jun 03, 2020

Hi friends,  So, in case any of you were wondering if I have been reading some of the comments on my social media platforms—I have. And I really would like to have an honest and open conversation with you gu...

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God Sees Colour

By Guest Contributor on Jun 03, 2020

By Lynne Moses This is something I wrote after seeing the video’s doing its rounds on social media. I am an Indian female living in South Africa. I am a Christian. It saddens me to see all the posts from lea...

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